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Old 04-18-2018, 11:34 AM
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https://psiloveyou.xyz/confronting-a...s-f9e35eea4546

I wonder if this might be helpful to you innsorting things out?

It was a great resource for me in deciphering what went wrong.

And I totally get a LOT of your feelings. I ended up poly right out of a really bad marriage, because those those were people I clicked withó and my therapist was assuming I was poly because I was bi pushed me that direction a bit.

Iím solo now, and thinking Iím defaulting to solo monogamy. If a really healthy system comes along to change meó greató but I think I want to build something from scratch this time round. My dynamics are comes enough without adding group dynamics right now!

I think envying a working poly relationship means wanting something you see as ideal there- me a mixture of autonomy and closeness, and the ability to be even-keeled about potentially wobbly-making needs of your partner. Perhaps figuring out what an ideal poly relationship stands for for you would help you achieve it in your current one?

FWIW, I very much got your situation. I think it was complex- but not unclear.

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Old 04-18-2018, 11:39 AM
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Also how wonderful to have two people in your relationship that both get poly to have space to heal together!
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