This is less poly related and more...I'm just not sure where else to go and ask this.
I have having idiopathic nipple discharge; it started last year and was caused by my IUD at the time, had that removed, then it resolved; I had medical testing to disprove cancer and a pituitary tumor and was generally disbelieved by most doctors and it was inherently traumatic. Since then I have done work to no longer be anxious about having my breasts touched/played with (which I enjoy and don't want to give up)
Now today it has resurfaced. At this point, it points to two possible outcomes. (I am seeing another doctor about it ASAP so, I'm not trusting the interwebs):
-Stimulation caused
-Menstrual cycle caused
Now, I'm 28. I've never had this issue in the last 15 years of menstruating save for when I had the IUD. So I'm hesitant to think that. But I've also done nipple play stuff since I started having sex so...again, that isn't a definitive answer. Also...Like...even if it IS caused by that I really don't want to have a basic no fly zone around a body part, especially since I ENJOY it.
Has anyone else had this problem? Has anyone had breast issues and still managed to NOT stop having fun with them? I've lived through it before and had to do the no fly zone to make things unbiased and while it wasn't hell it definitely made sex less fun and more stressful since we all, especially me, had to be SO mindful of things.
At this point I'm feeling so overwhelmed. None of my partners have had any issues like this. Two of which are cis men so...they do their best but like...
Sorry for posting something not really poly related.
I have having idiopathic nipple discharge; it started last year and was caused by my IUD at the time, had that removed, then it resolved; I had medical testing to disprove cancer and a pituitary tumor and was generally disbelieved by most doctors and it was inherently traumatic. Since then I have done work to no longer be anxious about having my breasts touched/played with (which I enjoy and don't want to give up)
Now today it has resurfaced. At this point, it points to two possible outcomes. (I am seeing another doctor about it ASAP so, I'm not trusting the interwebs):
-Stimulation caused
-Menstrual cycle caused
Now, I'm 28. I've never had this issue in the last 15 years of menstruating save for when I had the IUD. So I'm hesitant to think that. But I've also done nipple play stuff since I started having sex so...again, that isn't a definitive answer. Also...Like...even if it IS caused by that I really don't want to have a basic no fly zone around a body part, especially since I ENJOY it.
Has anyone else had this problem? Has anyone had breast issues and still managed to NOT stop having fun with them? I've lived through it before and had to do the no fly zone to make things unbiased and while it wasn't hell it definitely made sex less fun and more stressful since we all, especially me, had to be SO mindful of things.
At this point I'm feeling so overwhelmed. None of my partners have had any issues like this. Two of which are cis men so...they do their best but like...
Sorry for posting something not really poly related.