I live within about an hour's train ride to Penn station on the LIRR. I was wondering if there was someone in the NYC area that I might be able to meet with to hang out, grab a coffee and converse about the poly lifestyle. I will admit I have had exposure to some poly people in my life, but those relationships were either between people who I find detestable, or they were poor examples of a poly relationship. Pretty much looking for a friend that I can pick their brain, and help me to draw my own conclusions about the poly lifestyle.