ChickenandGravy
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Hello all,
I am 35 and live in Baltimore MD. I've been with my wife for 15 yrs, married 5. We have a beautiful 3 yr old girl that is everything to us. We started messing around with other girls about 10 yrs ago and "graduated' to couples about 6 yrs ago, well one couple in particular, we will call them David and Lisa. Things as of late have not gone well, after years of being together on a physical level and being incredibly close friend (Dave is my best friends) things have progressed to "love" between my wife and David. Unfortunately I don't have the same connection with Lisa. It has gotten so out of control that David and Lisa are now getting a divorce and my wife and I are on the rocks. Wait it gets worse.....recently my wife told me that she loves me but she isn't "in love with me". We have very open dialogue about how we feel, and we communicate very effectively. She assures me that there is no risk of her leaving and that she wants to work it out. I am feeling incredibly confused and conflicted, I don't really know where I am going with this but I could use some help, thanks for listening.
I am 35 and live in Baltimore MD. I've been with my wife for 15 yrs, married 5. We have a beautiful 3 yr old girl that is everything to us. We started messing around with other girls about 10 yrs ago and "graduated' to couples about 6 yrs ago, well one couple in particular, we will call them David and Lisa. Things as of late have not gone well, after years of being together on a physical level and being incredibly close friend (Dave is my best friends) things have progressed to "love" between my wife and David. Unfortunately I don't have the same connection with Lisa. It has gotten so out of control that David and Lisa are now getting a divorce and my wife and I are on the rocks. Wait it gets worse.....recently my wife told me that she loves me but she isn't "in love with me". We have very open dialogue about how we feel, and we communicate very effectively. She assures me that there is no risk of her leaving and that she wants to work it out. I am feeling incredibly confused and conflicted, I don't really know where I am going with this but I could use some help, thanks for listening.
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