[everyone here is a sockpuppet of Franklin Veaux and...]
and his French, grammatically correct yet def ears hears "We want a hot bi babe, how come everyone is fake? We're entitled to a sex toy, and we demand it!"
You are an adult, your spouse is an adult, and I assume you wouldn't get involved with minors, just be patient and understanding of your friends and know how to pick and choose the advice that fits you and your life. Franklin's sites are not the best source for triad information. If you were homosexual you wouldn't read blog posts at the Westboro Christian site would you?
so unless you think segregated, multi person dating is your poly flavor, take franks words with a grain of salt, or better yet spit it out, you'll be doing wrong unless you practice french proprietary poly
Dirt, I really object to your constant statements that there is nothing right about Franklin Veaux's information and that many of us (me included) are socks of his. My opinions are my own, I have been practicing polyamory with varied degrees of success since 1999. I am a middle aged female residing in Massachusetts and if you'd read my posts you'd see that to be so. Unless I am a novelist with a big imagination. Your repetitive statements are verging on paranoid.
Yes, there is a right way to do a triad. This thread is meant to show the mistaken attitude of Unicorn Hunting. The outcomes of this type of hunt are in threads all over the board. They do not all come from Veaux's keyboard.