InsaneMystic
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I've been with R. for six and a half years now, but other folks - both full-fledged partners and more casual "bedmates" - have come and gone for her in that time. (She's been the only partner I've been with in these years... simply because it's exceedingly rare that anyone is compatible with me. I'm not monogamous by any stretch of the imagination, I just face a dating pool of the "slim to none" size. But that's okay by me. )
The longest time of another relationship of hers being stably involved in our structure was around a year and a half.
There seems to be a de-facto state where I'm R.'s "emotional primary", even though I never asked for that position. I'm glad to have *a* place in her life, it really doesn't have to be a specially privileged one. And I'm actually curious to see how things are going to work out in the long run between her and the gal she's all up in NRE about at the moment. As far as I can tell, they fit each other nicely.
The longest time of another relationship of hers being stably involved in our structure was around a year and a half.
There seems to be a de-facto state where I'm R.'s "emotional primary", even though I never asked for that position. I'm glad to have *a* place in her life, it really doesn't have to be a specially privileged one. And I'm actually curious to see how things are going to work out in the long run between her and the gal she's all up in NRE about at the moment. As far as I can tell, they fit each other nicely.