Inyourendo
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Sounded like you were butting in. Even if you didn't call her selfish it's vwry easy to read the lines. You can't really blame her for blocking you
Well, you might see her texting as trying to interrupt your dates, and that may or may not be the impetus behind her texts, but you can't control her or manage her relationship with your bf. You can only manage your own.If she'd stop trying to interrupt my dates, there wouldn't be an issue.
well if I remember from your other thread you don't respect her because she chose do maintain her relationship with him when he was having trouble with his wife when you decided to back off because you thought it would be more considerate of his marriage not to pursue anything with him and then you were upset that he and her had a really close bond for all those months and basically you came into it as a stranger months later.
I don't think her choosing not to have any correspondence with you makes her crazy full of drama though it sounds like the only drama is coming from your side because you don't like her texting her boyfriend when he happens with you
I did not "come into his life as a stranger," after we took a break from seeing each other, inyourendo. We talked every single day, all summer long. For hours, typically. I just did not see him, out of respect for his wife and her struggles at that time. We continued the relationship we had started, just not face to face. Just like people do in long-distance relationships. I assume you don't think that people are only in relationships when they are actually spending time together?
You've said that this does not happen frequently. A text message beeps for about a second or two. Your partner remained asleep. He did not interrupt anything with you to answer her or attend her needs.
I think you need to admit that you're upset your metamour won't do as you wish her to in other areas. You are upset that she will not be friendly to you, so you are using the tiny amount of power you have to try and control their relationship. Let him answer his messages as he sees fit. If if he starts to say answer text messages during the middle of sex or if he disappears for an hour to chat to her, then you have a point. Right now? You're just angry at her and want to punish her anyway you can.
Inyourendo, his wife was otherwise occupied. They had schedules that did not coincide much. Otherwise, it would not have happened. Not that I have to defend myself to you, but that was what was going on.
Nycindie, I honestly don't know much about bipolar. My partner has described my metamour to me as not being in control of her actions at time, and I'm going on what he says, not on any knowledge or other direct experience with the illness. I did not intend to slight anyone or their partners here.