Well, I can't remember the last time I checked in, but we are past our 2 year anniversary (which Mal and I spent on a trip to Whistler, BC).
Djinn is living in the family home's basement suite that she was sharing with Aladdin until he moved out to go to Uni. She is now casually dating, but hasn't come up with a new partner yet.
Mal and Djinn are coparenting The Kids, but are not in a romantic/sexual relationship anymore, and Djinn considers this to mean that we are not "poly", which she is happy about because she is more "mono" than she realized.
I'm headed out there in about a month to stay for a week with Mal. He hasn't told Djinn this yet, because in spite of all the "not in a relationship" noises, Djinn doesn't cope well with anything related to Mal having other partners. (Yes, even while she lived with her other partner for almost a year, and while she is dating.) So that's fun. He will tell her about 10 days before I get there so she will have time to make whatever preparations she needs to while hopefully limiting the emotional fall out on Mal/The Kids.
Excitingly, he plans to tell the The Kids right after he tells Djinn. They (obviously) know about Djinn and Aladdin, so it shouldn't be a huge shock to them, but it is a shift in our relationship from me primarily being their mom's friend, to being their dad's partner. So I'm a bit anxious about that. But also it feels like a big "relationship thing" that I am now acknowledged by all members of his family as being his partner, so I'm happy about that
This is a rough time of year for me though (anniversary of my dad's death will be while I'm visiting) so I'm worried about that and how it will affect my ability to deal with any potential fallout from all these revelations.
But life goes on! And things seem strong and stable between Mal and I, so I'll get through this too