Newtothegame
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Long story short (sorry it is long) (& i feel theres so many little details but i want to get straight to the point) i met a woman online she wanted to find a girl for her & her husband. The 1st time i went to see them being a nurse she got called to work before i got there. She wasn't able to get any1 to relieve her so she was there all day. So it was just me & him she gave permission & seemed excited for him & I to have sex. Fast forward I'm texting her (we still haven't met) she mentions she's out of town but specifically asks if i'll go hang out with her husband. I go see him to my surprise i find out they also live with & he's also "with" the mother of 2 of his kids. Long story short this was a couple weeks ago i hadn't spoken to any of them since this visit i reached out to her about 3 times i was beginning to feel rejected & as if i had did something wrong. I finally speak to him today he explains they have broken up, not only him & his wife but him & his kids mom. I am happy that he had the courtesy to respond back to me but understand its a stressful time. I ask him if i should reach out to the wife again he says no because she is not herself right now. He is hopeful that they'll work things out but for now things are not good. He says the 2 women had an issue with each other & could not come to an agreement he does not give any further detail on what caused the break up. He stills wants to talk to & hook up with me. My dilemma is i really liked & am still hopeful about meeting the wife & am not sure if she'd be ok with me & him still seeing each other I don't want to offend her i also feel like i technically knew her first but I've actually spent time in person with him & he actually wrote me back, I've been reaching out to her for the past 2 weeks with no response. I don't feel like i should punish him & he & I have good chemistry. And i have no idea if me & her will ever speak again. But i just don't know how she would feel about this...should I even care? I definitely want to give her her space but also want to eventually reach out & let her know I'm here for her & miss talking to her. And I'm only hearing his side of the story, i mean what if he did something terrible to cause the break up? (One of my friends said what if she doesn't even exist lol smh)...What do I do?