nycindie
Active member
Dr. James Dobson (who has some views I am directly opposed to, yet does have a FEW decent ideas) wrote a book called "Love Must Be Tough." I read it about 15 years ago and I thought it was brilliant. A lot about when someone is moving away from you, don't chase them. (Kind of a reverse psychology). Do your own thing, move a little away from them, give them their space. Chances are better that with this approach, you will gradually get them curious enough about what YOU'RE doing, they'll come sniffing right back!
Haha, I found this out through experience -- my years of dating before I was married (no need for a book! LOL). I always called it the Yo-Yo factor: chase a guy, he runs, pull away, he's back. Seen it time and time again. Gotta let them think they're the ones in pursuit -- but we'll be lying in wait. Meoowwrrr!