californiaa
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I'm a poly(?) late 20s cis female. In a relationship with a mono late 20s cis female. Before I was in my mid 20s I was only ever with guys. I came out as a lesbian and have solely been with women since. Well besides that one night in university when I got walked home by a darling bi guy and I nearly slept with him.
Lately I have been missing men. I've been dreaming a lot about guys and in these dreams, getting involved in these "taboo" relationships with guys (lol). There are aspects of relationships with men that I miss. Safety, comfort, security etc that I don't get in this current relationship. I'm the safety, comfort and security for her and it's exhausting. It's not the role that I have ever wanted.
I don't want to end this relationship but I've brought up polyamory before and she's one thousand percent against it. I think I'd like to start dating men again. How do you tell your lesbian girlfriend this? Are dreams just dreams? Or is someone trying to tell me something?
Lately I have been missing men. I've been dreaming a lot about guys and in these dreams, getting involved in these "taboo" relationships with guys (lol). There are aspects of relationships with men that I miss. Safety, comfort, security etc that I don't get in this current relationship. I'm the safety, comfort and security for her and it's exhausting. It's not the role that I have ever wanted.
I don't want to end this relationship but I've brought up polyamory before and she's one thousand percent against it. I think I'd like to start dating men again. How do you tell your lesbian girlfriend this? Are dreams just dreams? Or is someone trying to tell me something?