Don't mind a bit.
Nick names like "Flea" and "puppy".....Wow....kinda odd.....Are you going to nickname your new interest "Kat"? LOL I'm joking.
Well, quick update. I let her know that Flea was going to spend a week with her friend. I figured that she would ask me if I was jealous, or worried, and I would use that as a starting point.
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By the way, this is only the second time Flea has gone to see Puppy, and the first time was only overnight, and I had a complete emotional meltdown. This time she's gonna be gone for four days. I'm on day two, and I'm getting a little stir crazy. It's funny how you get used to someone being around all of the time. We've only been poly for about seven months now and the first couple of months were tough for me. Just thought I'd vent a little, hope ya’ll don’t mind.
did you actually say that your wife is going to spend time with a friend or a boyfriend to your lady of interest?
I explained the concept of poly to her and told her that it's not about the sex, but making connections with other people. She basically said that she would have to sleep on it so she could get a better perspective. She usually emails me in the mornings, and it's now just past noon. Haven’t heard anything yet. I really care for her as a friend, and I hope this hasn’t jeopardized that.
Oh, shit. Maybe things went too fast. She emailed me tonight and asked if I'm still in love with Flea, and said, “getting emotionally involved with someone I can't have is unhealthy for me.” How do I explain that she can “have” me? The only barrier here is that we live so far away. Lots of people have LDRs. Maybe she will see things in a different light tomorrow.