FallenAngelina
Well-known member
If there's not space for dealing with appropriate vulnerability after deep physically driven emotional connection, maybe that needs to be addressed, or not happen. This doesnMr have to be presence- just good treatment and appropriate contact.
Getting square with yourself about what kind of ongoing contact you want will go a long way toward heading off that feeling of being "vulnerable." Whichever form of expansive sex you explore, the more aligned you are internally with desiring consistent and close intimacy, the more you'll find yourself with partners who are ready to offer it. Glad my thoughts are helpful for you.