MsChristy
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I spent the weekend seeing my partner. In the past his gf has had issues with jealousy, but it had seemed like she was really becoming less jealous and we were starting to become more friendly. The last few months me and his gf have even been able to hang out when I visit and have fun.
Anyway, I visited this weekend and she walked in on us playing, and while she wasn't surprised, she got a little mad. He talked to her and said she was fine. I then decided to go chat with her and found out she was not "fine." Instead, I got an earful from her about how she fears he is going to leave her for me, how she thinks he prefers me and finds me more attractive, etc. While she said her resentment is not as bad as it was initially, she said at one point it was to the point she had considered suicide.
Obviously all of this came to a shock to me. I have talked a lot with my partner and my husband about all of this. My husband, despite having nothing against my relationship, has encouraged me to break it off, so as to not put strain on their relationship.
Any advice from those who have dealt with similar issues. I keep telling myself nothing is my fault but I feel terrible that she has been feeling this way.
Anyway, I visited this weekend and she walked in on us playing, and while she wasn't surprised, she got a little mad. He talked to her and said she was fine. I then decided to go chat with her and found out she was not "fine." Instead, I got an earful from her about how she fears he is going to leave her for me, how she thinks he prefers me and finds me more attractive, etc. While she said her resentment is not as bad as it was initially, she said at one point it was to the point she had considered suicide.
Obviously all of this came to a shock to me. I have talked a lot with my partner and my husband about all of this. My husband, despite having nothing against my relationship, has encouraged me to break it off, so as to not put strain on their relationship.
Any advice from those who have dealt with similar issues. I keep telling myself nothing is my fault but I feel terrible that she has been feeling this way.