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Old 08-29-2011, 09:14 PM
FancyDancy FancyDancy is offline
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Question Less interested in sex with SO; does this happen often during strong NRE for another?

I am still sexually attracted to my husband and we've been together for a long time (over 8 years), but I've noticed that I don't have nearly as strong of urges to want to have sex with him as I used to since I started a recent relationship that is full of NRE. Is this normal? I love him and I want to stay with him. Is the best course of action to just keep fucking my husband's brains out until the NRE is weaker with OSO? How do you all deal with these feelings if they have happened to you? He said that he feels like he's been the only one initiating recently (which is the opposite of what it was in the past). I just never have the urge to initiate, but I have fun when we are actually in the moment. I've been trying, but it definitely doesn't just happen on it's own like it used to. What do you all think about this? We have only had a non-monogamous relationship for about 5 months. The deepest of my other relationships has been going on for about 2 (though we were good friends for over a year before we dated, so the emotional connection was already there) and we are sexually intimate, but no full on intercourse yet. By the way, we are all in our mid-to-late-20s for context.

Last edited by FancyDancy; 08-29-2011 at 09:17 PM.
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