Well, best of luck... my two cents is it seems like when you are NOT looking is when you find what you weren't even looking for. If you want to meet your third my advice would be to go ahead and entertain those "girls looking for attention", get involved and flirt w/ whomever is attractive to you and one of these days maybe one of those girls will actually fall in love with you two or you'll hit it off with someone else perfect. I believe it will happen, and when it does it will be at the perfect time.
Often he had been often bound with fetters and chains, and the chains had been rent asunder by him, and the fetters broken in pieces: neither could any man tame him...and he asked him, What is thy name? And he answered, saying, My name is Legion: for we are many.