There are some really great threads on "secondaries" and "unicorns" here if you do a search in the tags. You have rights to whatever you need. Time to negotiate and find out how everyone wants to go about getting their needs met. Ya, if you are a triad then you should have everyone's number... Kinda a given no? Oh ya and you might want to look up the tags for "lessons" and "foundation" too; it might help you get an idea of some stuff that works in starting a dynamic such as yours.
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