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Old 10-23-2009, 12:01 AM
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NightDragon and DragonBorn had a conversation this morning. It was a conversation that was much needed. It was a soul searching, heart wrenching, tearful, hurting, letting go and holding on sort of conversation. I think that's really what male bonding is, they just never want to tell us girls

At any rate and in all seriousness, I am ecstatic they finely talked heart to heart.

After DB went home, ND and I talked, quietly, calmly, with no tears and all love. Something finely let go inside both of us. That something was pain and hurt, the sharp, dark, angry, thing inside us both, stopped it's ruthless attack and instead just stood there, patiently, waiting to be dealt with.

I am forever grateful that the boys slayed that dark hurtful "dragon"(s) between us three.

I know it's been said countless times and will be said countless more... Communication boys and girls, for the win!
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Old 10-23-2009, 12:12 AM
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Been there, done that - several times, lol. It's HARD. And it HURTS. And it's SO WORTH IT. Be it between two guys or any members of a poly relationship, it's the same thing.

Does this mean we can hang out now?
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Old 10-23-2009, 01:56 AM
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Yes indeed! Communication FTW!
And I really like the title!
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Dr. Seuss.
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Old 10-23-2009, 02:05 AM
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*hides for the fire*
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Old 10-23-2009, 03:04 AM
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YUP. Communication is the key.
I donít get many things right the first time
In fact, I am told that a lot
Now I know all the wrong turns, the stumbles and falls
Brought me here...
And where was I before the day
That I first saw your lovely face?
Now I see it everyday
And I know that I am
I am, I am
The luckiest..
~ Ben Folds five ~
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