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Old 10-22-2009, 06:38 AM
DragonBorn DragonBorn is offline
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Post Work in progress Pt.3

Hello, I’m DragonBorn and I am the "third" with Dragonfly and NightDragon.

Um… well, first off, I think of myself as Mono-ish… I know I can love multiple people. However, I seem to have a hang-up with sharing someone that I would consider “mine” sexually… I don’t have many problems like that with Dragonfly, well, because she’s not mine. Though I did tell her that I don’t think I could handle her with another man other than Nightdragon of course. So…make of that what you will.

I’m into video games, mostly on the PC. I’m an avid player of MMORPG’S of any variety and have an un-natural weakness for Rock band, especially when I’m the drummer! Um… I like Cars of all variety’s and usually enjoy working on, and modifying them. As far as our relationship goes it is definitely a work in progress. We have always spent a lot of time talking out our issues and fears, and where we see this relationship going.
We started this around 2 months ago, and it has definitely been a racecar of emotions since the start... I love them both, I truly do, and I can see such amazing potential in this relationship that we have.

As of right now, I am in the boyfriend position, which I am more than happy to be in. NightDragon and Dragonfly are so amazing. The fact that they have allowed me to have that title after so little time, the effort they are making to work through some of our issues is astonishing, they have shared with me, something so special, and I really can’t express how thankful I am for that. But the feelings between Dragonfly and I have been going at super speed, and just last week, she informed NightDragon that she is in love with me, and this, he was not ready for, and really I don’t know how this has happened between us so fast. It kind of scares me to know that she has fallen for me so fast, and that I feel the same way about her. I know given time, and patience that these feelings and emotions will calm down at least somewhat, maybe after the shiny and new gets a little dusty and scratched.

So, here I am. Scared that this will end in disaster, and wondering what happens next. Trying my damndest to let him know I have no intention, want, desire, or need to replace him, and trying to hold back the feelings I have towards her in an attempt to help ease the stress of this latest discovery.

Input is greatly appreciated, no matter how blunt it may be.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Dr. Seuss.
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