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Old 07-30-2011, 05:50 PM
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Then you may not be unicorn material! It's always gonna be 2 against one, imo.
Why can't she set her own boundaries and call them on any unfairness or ganging up that they do? Sure, they have the ability to team up as an arbitrarily loyal couple, but they can also be reasonable and accountable to her, can't they? If they can't, I don't think it would be wise to engage in a relationship with them.
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Old 07-30-2011, 08:40 PM
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Sorry River. But ...
Magdlyn, This post, along with your other, helps me realize what a damn wonderful, special, precious and desirable man I am. Thanks!
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Old 07-30-2011, 09:12 PM
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Magdlyn, This post, along with your other, helps me realize what a damn wonderful, special, precious and desirable man I am. Thanks!
LOL! Not my intent but glad it boosted your self esteem!
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Old 07-31-2011, 11:22 PM
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LOL! Not my intent but glad it boosted your self esteem!
How could it not? I mean, reading your comments on men-in-general suggests that most all men are creepy, manipulative, selfish, lying dorks without any emotional intelligence or capacity for a well-rounded loving presence.

If this be true about men-in-general, I'm quite a prize! since I have the rare combination of a penis, honestly, sincerity, truth-telling, tenderness, kindness, empathy, intelligence, bigheartedness, and etc., etc... (And I'm humble, too!).
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How could it not? I mean, reading your comments on men-in-general suggests that most all men are creepy, manipulative, selfish, lying dorks without any emotional intelligence or capacity for a well-rounded loving presence.
sigh... Not all men. Just the couple-3 dozen I've dated in the past 2 1/2 years. One exception, my 2 year relationship with my "boytoy." But even he stopped coming around, with no explanation, no closure at all.

My gf's bf is pretty cool. So are a couple friends of mine. Ummm, wait, they're transmen.

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If this be true about men-in-general, I'm quite a prize! since I have the rare combination of a penis, honestly, sincerity, truth-telling, tenderness, kindness, empathy, intelligence, bigheartedness, and etc...
Yeah, you rock, as far as I can tell.
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