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Old 10-21-2009, 09:13 AM
NightDragon NightDragon is offline
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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Default Fell in love?

Hey. I'm finding myself with a huge problem and I'm not sure how to deal with it.

Dragonfly has fallen "IN" love with DragonBorn and I'm so not prepared for that. I'm hurt, jelous, and afraid! This relationship is still new. Only 2 months. When it was first talked about between the 3 of us, it was stated that this was just going to be some adult fun, and that maybe a relationship might come out of it and I'd be ok with that. Well it was never just adult fun, it started right off in a relationship. Which for the most part I was ok with, just thrown a little off guard, and a little paranoid. Then just this weekend I'm hit with, "I'm IN love with him." What do I do? I love my wife! I even really care for DB, more then I could ever care for any other man, but this hurts. I know you can't control your emotions, specially not in who you love or how you love, but I am not ready for this. I'm trying to deal with this the best I can, but it's tearing at me. I've told both of them that I'm having this issue and why and thankfully they understand. They've started holding back from each other specially infront of me and I can see it hurts them to do such which make me feel like even more of an asshole. I don't want to hold them back from saying what they want to say or do what it is they want to do. But again, what do I do when I'm not ready for my wife to be "in" love with another, specially when she already is?
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