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Old 07-27-2011, 06:47 PM
Feanix82 Feanix82 is offline
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Default New to this and needing advice!

About four months ago I met R and was immediately attracted to him. But he was married so I set that aside. But we became friends and very gradually started spending more and more time together. I met his wife, K, and LOVED her. What a great girl (she's younger than R and myself)! We had coffee together, the three of us, and then a few weeks later had dinner.
K seemed to not only be comfortable with our friendship... she seemed to encourage it. And R and I began to spend more and more time together. And then... K suggested that R feel free to expand the boundaries of his relationship with me. They had had a conversation about polyamory before they were married but had never acted on it. K feels strongly that polyamory is healthy for all parties and is interested in forming relationships of her own outside of her marriage.
At first R and I were very uncomfortable with this idea... but a week went by and with K's encouragement we began to seriously talk about dating.
And last night he kissed me.
And today I am both elated and very nervous.
But I want to make this work... for all of us.

K and I are meeting in a few days to have a woman to woman chat.

What should I be sure to talk about with her?

Any advice would help!
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