I'm a mono In love with a poly girl and know not what to do

[NeonKaos]

By the way, don't even think about asking us to delete your posts when you suddenly realize everything that's posted on this forum will show up in a Google search. The answer will be "no". Good night.

[monopolylover]

Originally Posted by NeonKaos

Stop saying that. Just stop it. All I or anyone else have done is repeat back to you what you said and ask you if that's really what you mean. Then you come back and say we made everything up and then you repeat exactly what you said before already.

I have no further use for this conversation.

Thank you, After seeing how your now stalking me out on other threads just to accuse me of more nonsense I have to agree. You are DONE.

I hate to point out how typical this is and how little a surprise it is that you are a fellow American just looking to stir up another forum thread.

Best to not be to 'snarky' or "jaded" when debating people.

[monopolylover]

Originally Posted by NeonKaos

By the way, don't even think about asking us to delete your posts when you suddenly realize everything that's posted on this forum will show up in a Google search. The answer will be "no". Good night.

ummm, I see little point in asking to delete any posts seeing as you just edited one of yours AND trolled me to an entirely different thread just to 'snark' at me. I wish it would be a mystery how your perception of what was written got so warped but unfortunately the answer is kind of obvious.

[nycindie]

You posted your tirade in a section where anyone can respond, debate, challenge you as much as they want. Now you're getting mad, and totally twisting and misunderstanding the feedback a Moderator is giving you. I am absolutely certain you are not important enough to NeonKaos for her to follow you around on threads and take potshots at you - perhaps you just aren't savvy enough to "get" what's been posted. No wonder you were duped by a grifter.

BUT - did you really think you could come to this board and trash polyamory and the people who practice it, and not be challenged by anyone? What good does it do you to come here and spew such nastiness?

Obviously you're pissed -- you let yourself be someone's patsy. However, if you really wanted support you would've just told your story without vilifying the poly "dating pool" and poly in general. We're just calling you on the carpet for your rudeness.

[monopolylover]

Originally Posted by nycindie

I am absolutely certain you are not important enough to NeonKaos for her to follow you around on threads and take potshots at you

this is a quote from a thread that is not this thread made the same time Ms Kaos seems to have gotten in a snit over me this evening:

Originally Posted by NeonKaos

Probably not. The OP says they want ACCURATE information.

That after I simply offered contact information for two polys I know in Madison Wisconsin where the OP resides. Then magically Neonkaos appeared to post that.
Obviously there was some kind of issue. Hopefully NeonKaos is over it now as she stated, then edited her own post to restate later while adding that I would somehow want anyone to delete posts I had made.

Now tell me again about "rudeness". Keeping in mind I pack one hell of a screen capture archive for situations just like this one.

I've only "trashed" anyone who has used the idea of polyamory to manipulate people. I never said I myself have NEVER known a REAL polyamorist. I've just never dated a real one and the frequency of knowing those who were honest has been rare in my experience. That is hardly trashing polyamory itself at all. Much of what I have said was taken out of context by neonkaos and likewise I was given a very rude series of retorts instead of any real conversation. But if you look back on this thread everyone BUT neonkaos has actually been very on the level and adult mannered. I do not deal in absolutes, generalizations or anamocity. Somehow though this seems to be the perception by this individual. I can understand it may be yours now by proxy not knowing the whole story. That is understandable. Now that all is seen and heard a better understanding now exists. Taken as it is.

[AutumnalTone]

Originally Posted by monopolylover

What I am sayin is, as far as polyamory, I've expended the chances I can lend to trusting the next yank who wants to tell me they are doing it and being honest. They may very well be. But I'm not pointing that barrel at MY head ever again.

That raises a question, then: Why are you here? Why are you participating on these boards at all, if you're uninterested in anything poly for the forseeable future?

If you're here simply to snark at polyfolk and otherwise troll, I'll suggest simply moving along now. We won't be tolerating any such nonsense.

[AutumnalTone]

Originally Posted by monopolylover

this is a quote from a thread that is not this thread made the same time Ms Kaos seems to have gotten in a snit over me this evening:

Please note that the mod staff reads most active threads as part of their duties. It is not unusual for a mod to respond in myriad threads--the same as any other random member--while reading them. I seem to be the most reticent to get involved in discussions because I never know how long it will be before I can follow up in any exchange.

[monopolylover]

Originally Posted by AutumnalTone

If you're here simply to snark at polyfolk and otherwise troll.

since I was doing neither I hate to sound like a broken record but that kinda eliminates the premise of this portion of the thread. It was just conversation until the finger pointing came to town.