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Old 07-02-2011, 11:27 AM
kingtone kingtone is offline
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Default Things moving very fast

Hi all I'm just after some advice.
I've been with my girl for about 4 months and she has been with her husband for almost 9 years. We love each other and really enjoy our time together, but there are times when she clearly wants our relationship to be at the same level of routine, knowing each other, intimacy and interaction as her relationship with her husband as though she is trying to push out relationship and make it jump the normal stages it would take in its natural progression. My question is how do I tell her that I think she trying to get things to move to fast, in an unnatural way, with out her thinking I'm taking the typical guy excuse "things are moving to fast I want out." I don't want out, but it took her and her husband 9 years to get where they are for a reason. Can anyone out there help ?
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