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Old 07-01-2011, 10:59 AM
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Default Pregnant girlfriend. WTF now?

I talked about this a bit in my blog:
http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showt...9525#post89525

I posted this bit here because I thought it brought up a bigger discussion about pregnancy that deserves its own thread. After all, that's one of the consequences of sex, whether we want to acknowledge it or not.

I'm very curious how others deal with this, because it does happen (as I've found out). A pregnant secondary raises many issues. What about a pregnant primary from a secondary lover? What about pregnancy in a true triad?

The self-hatred is flooding in because of this, and from an intellectual perspective I know that shit happens and nothing is fool-proof. From an emotional standpoint, I feel like I crossed the great taboo line even though it was nowhere near intentional. So, how do you guys deal with this? How would you were you in my situation?
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