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Old 06-21-2011, 04:36 AM
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If you have to do anything.. life changes or small changes, where you lose respect for yourself.. don't. Thats your own red flag.

We can sit here and see a tonne of red flags in how you describe whats going on, but in the end, only you know when its become too much push and not enough living.

Best of luck.. and stay true to yourself
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Old 06-21-2011, 09:17 PM
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Why don't you all just sit down together some night and discuss everything? Get everything out in the open so you can deal with it.
I was going to say the same thing. Why create drama where there doesn't have to be? In my experience, dealing with any small detail as it comes up means less drama nd less reason to wonder. When I wonder, I like to think its out loud in an honest open way. I try and remain considerate and kind when communicating as much as I can, but get on it so nothing builds.
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