Originally Posted by TL4everu2
My wife and I have found that when we meet people, and tell them we are looking for Friends with bennifits, it works better than telling them we are "poly". For some odd reason, as soon as we tell ppl we are "poly", they get all scared and try to run the other way. They get scared of the "relationship" and "love" parts. So, we are back to simply telling people we are just looking for FWB's.
Oh yeah, it does sound less scary lol! How do you get around people wanting to just be "swingers" with you? Idk maybe its just my 20-something age bracket that encourages a lack of commitment... lol