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Old 05-01-2011, 09:06 PM
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I think you guys need to go out, take a walk, hold hands, get some fresh air, and forget about poly and relationships and trying to figure things out for a while. Just enjoy each other and renew. You both seem to tend toward analysis and going over every little detail to determine what to do, how you feel, how to be, what went wrong, what this one meant when they said that, what that meant when they said this, and so on. Nothing wrong with analyzing per se -- but I have a sense you could both use a break! A kind, gentle, loving break.
I could agree with that, & were not really doing much at this point, the 1 girl we still talk to "C" is more of a friendship thing, someone who understands & is kind.

& its also true that we DO over think a lot of things, but were kinda OCD like that.

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Old 05-02-2011, 12:54 AM
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What I am reading here is how open your hearts are to loving. What a curse that is, hahaha! I admire your loving ways and I wish you both the very best. Keep your hearts open and your minds as well -- there is bound to be some heartbreak along the way, but also some soaring heights, as well
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What I am reading here is how open your hearts are to loving. What a curse that is, hahaha! I admire your loving ways and I wish you both the very best. Keep your hearts open and your minds as well -- there is bound to be some heartbreak along the way, but also some soaring heights, as well
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Old 05-05-2011, 04:51 AM
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went crazy at work tonight & took pictures of the plant...

http://s2.photobucket.com/albums/y5/...ile%20Uploads/

yea, I was bored...
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Was that a live tree or a silk/fake tree? If live, it looks like a Benjamin Ficus, which freaks out and loses its leaves when subjected to lots of changes such as temperature, lighting, or placement. Poor little fig tree!
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Was that a live tree or a silk/fake tree? If live, it looks like a Benjamin Ficus, which freaks out and loses its leaves when subjected to lots of changes such as temperature, lighting, or placement. Poor little fig tree!
LOL, nope they are plastic tress, covered in dust & nobody cared for them, so I decided to play with them while I was bored at work...

Tonight, I took one home... its in the trunk of my car now LOL
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Old 05-16-2011, 10:15 PM
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Were doing ok now, more & more so each day...

Kinda thinking about going back to Houston, our friends there were worth SO much more... but I dunno... Would that be running?
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