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Old 03-29-2011, 08:02 PM
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I'm secure (but I knew that without a test).
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According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 1.86, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 1.69, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance).

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Old 03-31-2011, 08:27 PM
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According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 3.55, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 2.78, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance).

Not really surprised.
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I need to get my lady to take this quiz but I rated in the Secure side of the graph.

As you can see in this graph, the two dimensions of anxiety and avoidance can be combined to create interesting combinations of attachment styles. For example people who are low in both attachment-related anxiety and avoidance are generally considered secure because they don't typically worry about whether their partner's are going to reject them and they are comfortable being emotionally close to others.

Combining your anxiety and avoidance scores, you fall into the secure quadrant. Previous research on attachment styles indicates that secure people tend to have relatively enduring and satisfying relationships. They are comfortable expressing their emotions, and tend not to suffer from depression and other psychological disorders.
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Old 04-26-2011, 12:55 AM
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I also rated as secure (anxiety 2, avoidance 1.25).
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Old 04-26-2011, 01:23 PM
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"According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 1.44, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 4.36, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance)."

I fell into the dismissing quadrant. Not very attractive I suppose.

Well, at least I was very close to the border, almost in the secure quadrant. More to work on it seems.
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Interesting ... I have low anxiety around relationships, but I have an anxiety disorder??

According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 1.64, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 1.44, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance).
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Old 04-26-2011, 03:59 PM
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Interesting ... I have low anxiety around relationships, but I have an anxiety disorder??
Same here. But I have to say I agree. I am absolutely secure in being loved, and I'm not afraid of being left or anything like that. My anxieties are not related to my relationships at all.
And when they are, it's more about "oh my God he went to get groceries ten minutes ago and still isn't back, I hope he didn't get into some accident!" or things like that, as ridiculous as they seem in retrospect (or even at the time) >.>
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Old 04-26-2011, 04:47 PM
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Same here. But I have to say I agree. I am absolutely secure in being loved, and I'm not afraid of being left or anything like that. My anxieties are not related to my relationships at all.
And when they are, it's more about "oh my God he went to get groceries ten minutes ago and still isn't back, I hope he didn't get into some accident!" or things like that, as ridiculous as they seem in retrospect (or even at the time) >.>
Mine would be more, "Oh God, I have to go out and get groceries and deal with PEOPLE!"
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Old 04-26-2011, 05:22 PM
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Mine would be more, "Oh God, I have to go out and get groceries and deal with PEOPLE!"
Well, that too, but then it has nothing to do with romantic relationships at all :P
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