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04-24-2011, 04:20 PM
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Yup, the time will very soon come for me to say that no matter what he is thinking or wants to commit to, I cannot marry him on that day. I wanted it to be mutual for the sake of future possibilities in our relationship. I wanted to wait until after the therapy session that I hope he will join me in. I'm going to the therapist whether he is or not.
I'll check out Al-Anon. I will go today if I can. 
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#52
04-24-2011, 04:47 PM
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koifish, I think that you should be proud of yourself for the giant steps you're willing to take. I wish you all the best.
hug!!!
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If I can't dance, I want no part in your Revolution. - Emma Goldman Anarchist and Polyamorous par excellence The person who says something is impossible should not interrupt the person who is doing it. - old Chinese proverb And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.~ Anais Nin I'd rather have a broken heart / Than have a heart of stone. - from "Boundless Love (A Polyamory Song)" by Jimmy Hollis i Dickson
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