Originally Posted by tercera
Oh! Iīm having second thoughts! What if he feels so angry and betrayed I end up losing both of them? What if we try to open our relationships, it doesnīt work out, and they drift apart as a couple? I donīt want to do that to them!
Iīm so scared!
Or they could be over joyed and both embrace you. You just won't know until you do it. If nothing else you will likely feel much better about being open and the result sounds very promising to me.