Is there really any such thing as being mono in a poly relationship?
I am fairly new here but have been reading more posts than I can count. One question keeps arising for me. Delving into all the different deffinitions of poly relationships the one that intrigues me the most is when someone says "I am mono"!
I thought this descibed fairly accurately one being in a one on one relationship! Sweetie and I are both in a "mono" relationship with TommyC, but I love her just as much as I love Tommy. Is love not the basis of any relationship, and if so, how can I possibly love the other two in our V equally and still say 'mono'?