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Old 04-04-2011, 03:01 AM
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Complicated and wonderful it seems from what I've been able to read on here!
And you would be right
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Old 04-04-2011, 03:02 AM
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I noticed before though that even if you said you were in an open relationship, you couldn't add someone if you already said you were in an open relationship with someone else. It said "this person is already in a relationship". It was stupid.
We found the same thing when we tried to add married AND open relationship. Agreed- it is stupid!
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Old 04-04-2011, 03:06 AM
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Old 04-04-2011, 04:15 AM
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If you really feel the need to - you can do it by using the 'featured people' option in your friends lists... uncheck the relationship status thingy and then add it how you like in the featured people bit.
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How do I feature specific friends or groups on my profile?

In addition to your general list of friends, you can choose to feature specific friends (e.g., best friends, roommates or coworkers) or groups you're a member of in the left column of your profile.

Feature specific friends
You can either create new lists or feature existing friend lists. When you add someone to a featured list, they will receive a notification letting them know that you are featuring them on your profile. Follow these steps:

1. Click the "Edit Profile" button in the top-right corner of your profile.
2. Select "Featured People" from the left-hand menu.
3. Under "Featured Friends," choose to add either an existing friend list or create a new one.
4. When you’re done, click "Save Changes."


If you have selected multiple lists, you can change the order they appear on your profile. To do this, simply drag each list to where you’d like to place it. Then, click "Save Changes."
using this method - you could name your 'lists' whatever status you give whichever partner/s you are listing under it
haven't done it or tried it myself, but that is the accepted facebook way to do it at the moment
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Old 04-04-2011, 05:05 AM
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If you really feel the need to - you can do it by using the 'featured people' option in your friends lists... uncheck the relationship status thingy and then add it how you like in the featured people bit.


using this method - you could name your 'lists' whatever status you give whichever partner/s you are listing under it
haven't done it or tried it myself, but that is the accepted facebook way to do it at the moment
Just tried that, and it works. You don't need to re-enter whoever you already have entered in your relationship status, or they'll appear twice.
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Old 04-04-2011, 05:39 AM
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If you really feel the need to - you can do it by using the 'featured people' option in your friends listsp
No one to add at the moment but I'll keep it in mind for the future...Thanks!!
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Old 04-04-2011, 07:04 PM
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No I don't have open listed. There are people me being open would hurt. Why would I want to do that. I am not selfish enough to believe being outted matters. Those who know, know. Those who don't aren't likely close enough for me to care.
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Old 04-04-2011, 10:55 PM
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No I don't have open listed. There are people me being open would hurt. Why would I want to do that. I am not selfish enough to believe being outted matters. Those who know, know. Those who don't aren't likely close enough for me to care.
That is definitely a very understandable perspective. I suspect that many on here feel the same way. Being that I don't, at the moment, have anyone to protect, I'm all out there. Relationships are private and no one has a need to know beyond what you choose to share. I don't think sharing necessarily makes one selfish but I can see protecting the wishes/needs of others.
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Old 04-05-2011, 12:19 AM
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This was sent to us by a friend. We have yet to actually try it.


If you're on Facebook and your other partners are on Facebook and you
want to make a noise on your profile about how you actually HAVE other
people in your gang, here's a little hack on how to do it:

http://www.facebook.com/note.php?not...50097803772727
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Old 04-05-2011, 12:53 AM
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I have my relationship status listed as "complicated" and then I have a list called "My Beloveds" and it has both husband and boyfriend listed.

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