Originally Posted by Magdlyn
Wow, what they said, plus-- you 2 have only been together 2 years, and have a 9 month old. So she got pregnant 6 months into your relationship. And dated the whole time as well, while in NRE with you, and also while pregnant?
And your best friend? Just got his rocks off when they had permission from you for a movie date? What was *he* thinking?
If you want to protect your daughter, set some firmer boundaries... like yesterday. She mightve been hiding her tendency to self harm, people do that (I know, my daughter hid it from our family for YEARS).
Yeah, well I guess I didn't mention this, she DIDN'T date while pregnant, just intensely before and quite a bit afterwards. You have to understand, she isn't a bad person, only did the cutting thing one time before she got pregnant, and had been in a physical relationship with my friend before she got pregnant. It's a lot of backstory I thought I had mentioned (He was the same guy I sat out on the porch while she had sex with)
I don't feel like I'm being used, and I don't feel like she did any of this with an intent to harm me. I'm sorry if it came off that way.
As for firmer boundries, they have already been set. We are monogamous except for at these vacation times. It's not an issue anymore as I see it. Not until she gets to that event and then realizes she wants that all the time.