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Old 03-24-2011, 03:01 AM
yul yul is offline
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Default Should the relationship between primary/secondary be shared and non-exclusive?


I am wondering if there is a "norm" in the sense that if I have 2 women in my life then do they both have to be good friends?

Also, is there a guideline/balance in the sense that we either spend all the time together (3 of us) or apart?

I am fairly new and am trying to make sense of what would work.

My partner is not fully OK with poly but I am really trying to make it easy for her...

She is OK with me having another girl "friend" yet she wants that communication be shared as well as time spent together.

We do light play and kink occasionally with other people but it's all in the same room and there is no emotional attachment...I guess I am half way there ;-)


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