I can't tell you how much I do appreciate everyone's willingness to share their experiences here. thank you!
This struck a chord with me:
Originally Posted by axlfreak
and by that i don't mean i'd rather have half of him than none
And maybe I should post a new topic for this. I often wonder if our love is diluted when we share it with more than one intimate partner. We only have so much time to share our love, in our thoughts and actions. And it is time that is not spent with one partner but now more than one. That is less to go around. Hence it is diluted to me. Maybe I have hard time comprehending how Rob and I would be able to give so much of ourselves to more than one intimate partner, without somehow short changing the other.