well her nre is no longer a big factor in this as she is no longer talking to him, her decision so we can work on our issues without making more. However, she hasnt really been able to answer me when i ask her, what about the next time someone comes around that you want to be with. Just that she doesnt want me to leave.
I have thought about the nre high junky senario long before any of this started to happen. just from how our relations has changed over the years with lack of excitement atleast from her end and is something we have talked about before. and to me thats what it sounds like.