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Old 02-10-2011, 01:09 AM
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We'll talk together and decide which tidbits to share, thanks.
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Old 02-10-2011, 02:52 AM
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I mean, I guess I'm not really worried what people think on here as much as I want a say in which bits of my own personal information/history get shared.
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Old 02-10-2011, 12:27 PM
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I mean, I guess I'm not really worried what people think on here as much as I want a say in which bits of my own personal information/history get shared.
Oh, I didn't mean to come across as pushy. My post was written in the spirit of fun and lightheartedness. I know that squirmy feeling when someone else reveals more than you're comfortable with. Of course, it's up to you both how much to share here! I was just trying to be welcoming and encouraging, especially since this is a new blog. I really appreciate what you both have been writing thus far.
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Old 02-12-2011, 05:02 PM
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I think there is a dynamic which has changed after some recent talks. I think greeneyes has been under the impression that I have had some unstated (and therefore dreaded and feared) desire - that I am trying to *make* something happen, rather than remove the restrictions that would *allow* things to happen. She has had a space for some time to talk about her desires, and I am simply wanting to assert my right to do the same.

I wanted to say something, because if we suddenly begin posting less here, it's not on account of any hard feelings =-)
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