searching for my place
I'm 21 years old and I live alone with my cat in central Pennsylvania. I generally consider myself a lesbian (because that is the label that I am most comfortable with socially), but I find myself attracted to men as well (and often those people who fall somewhere between or outside of the gender binary). I am currently in an open long-distance relationship with a female I met at 16. We dated long-distance for a year after we first met and are now trying again. We stumbled into polyamory separately. I discovered the beauty of the concept while I was engaged to my ftm trans ex, though he (then she) didn't care much for the idea. While, in theory, it seems beautiful, I'm honestly not sure if polyamory is right for me. That's why I'm here. I'm still searching and I want to stay open to any and all possibilities.