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Old 12-29-2010, 07:44 PM
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Default Adoption/biological

So Karma and I have been havign some pretty interesting talks lately. And I think our stance of never having kids may change. I have always wanted to be a mother, even though it scares the hell out of me. I had pretty much resigned myself to the fact that I never would be because Karma was so against it.

So now that it is something we are talking about, and may be considering (still not a yeah lets start trying now), I am questioning my health. I have a lot of things that will make pregnancy very hard on me. Fibromyalgia and my bad back being top on the list. Add in a history of cervical cancer, endometriosis plus all my mental stuff (OCD, depression, anxiety) I'm gonna have a hard pregnancy.

I've always thought about adoption. There is so much I could risk my child inheriting from either of us, I think I almost owe it to that child to not bring it into this life, when there are so many out there who are here and have no one to love and care for them.

But I've always wanted to experience pregnancy and carrying a child.

So what are your thoughts on having a biological child vs adopting?
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