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Old 12-18-2010, 10:07 PM
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Default Mono in a poly relationship

My wife and I have been happily married for almost 20 years, we have two kids, and we've been best friends (as well as lovers) since the day we met. Just recently, I found out that she's bi (she only realized this herself about 7 months ago), that she fell in love with another woman, that she still loves me just as much as always, and that she wants a polyamorous "vee" relationship between the three of us. I love her and want to make this work, but I struggle as well. I'm a hopeless mono, and I just don't know how to make this work. Therefore, I'm using all resources available at my disposal: poly websites, FAQs, books, meetup groups, pen pals, and lots of talking between the three of us in this relationship.

Any advise or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated as I explore how to make this work. Thank you.

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