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Old 12-14-2010, 11:12 PM
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No problem flamekat. Good question.

I am used to telling PN everything, so I'm not used to monitoring. I don't mind doing that if Mono is not interested in knowing what I do. It keeps me safe to know that if I have to tell him then I have to live with the consequence of going over a boundary we have together. I monitor myself with that. I will find a different way to monitor.
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Old 12-14-2010, 11:14 PM
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An answer that answers nothing - kudos Mono...

I knew that you knew all of that - I have read probably most of yours and RP's posts I guess it just surprises me that you have trouble with hearing that stuff from Pepper if you are okay with it...

Anyways - I shall quit hijacking now :P
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Old 12-14-2010, 11:25 PM
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An answer that answers nothing - kudos Mono...

I knew that you knew all of that - I have read probably most of yours and RP's posts I guess it just surprises me that you have trouble with hearing that stuff from Pepper if you are okay with it...

Anyways - I shall quit hijacking now :P
I should be a politician LOL! Being ok with something does not necessarily mean I am completely ok with all aspects of it. Relationships are give and take. A person can be ok with the idea of something and not be quite as ok with the reality of seeing it. I use little internal and secret tricks to bridge the gap of mono and poly. But they are secret so don't ask
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Old 12-14-2010, 11:27 PM
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I monitor myself with that. I will find a different way to monitor.
They need a computer monitoring program or something like that Lilo Maybe Ari can whip us up something...not that kind of "whip"
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fair enough - you like it vague and mysterious...

how very cloak and dagger of you good to see you are still human was beginning to think you were the world's most accepting and tolerant person :P
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Old 12-14-2010, 11:29 PM
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good to see you are still human was beginning to think you were the world's most accepting and tolerant person :P
Welcome to Redpepper's reality
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Old 12-14-2010, 11:43 PM
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I use little internal and secret tricks to bridge the gap of mono and poly. But they are secret so don't ask
Redpepper just came in and is in the shower warming up after a day at work with no heat...guess what the first question she asked was I told her I have an internal DADT policy
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Does that stop you talking to yourself?
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Does that stop you talking to yourself?
Ummm...you're interrupting my conversation with myself
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Well as long as you don't argue with yourself...and lose!
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