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Old 08-26-2009, 10:18 PM
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What would your idea be of something NOT to say to him? I am thinking about in terms of in your ex-wife situation. Is there something she couldn't said that would have made it easier to swallow for you?
I won't answer this simply because it is your responsibility to be straightforward in what you want. Something I may say "not" to say to him may be something you actually want. Don't shape the conversation to get what you want, explain what you want accurately and see where that takes you.

Listen to JRM about possible ways to broach the subject to get a feeling for how he will respond to actually being asked "officially" to explore poly. Then decide if it is prudent and worth it to proceed.

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