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Old 12-12-2010, 12:12 AM
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I am curious if anyone has ever had the issue, and what they have done about it, of having 2 people who are interested in being in a relationship with them and they are only attracted or interested in one? This must have come up sometime.....
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Old 12-12-2010, 12:28 AM
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Do the two people come as a package? I am assuming yes, or I wouldn't see the issue...
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Old 12-12-2010, 02:52 AM
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I'm guessing the same as the above. I've never been in that situation, but if I was, I'd make it clear I was only interested in one of them and let them both decide if that was ok. If not, I would move on and find others.
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Old 12-12-2010, 06:06 AM
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Be honest.
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Old 12-12-2010, 03:31 PM
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sounds like you are the person in the middle. but, you're not responsible if one of them doesn't want to be intmate with the other. i'm not 100% sure i'm reading the situation correctly. but, yes, just be honest with your own feelings and encourage them to do the same. time will tell with this. also, they may try something, and find they like it or don't. things change.
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