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Old 12-09-2010, 04:45 PM
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I happen to agree with Ari and I didn't think he was directing his comment to you polynHR, but making a point about "some" men. I have heard from several poly men about the fact that it is hard to find women... some have been annoyingly whiny about it and some just stating a fact.
This is correct. I wasn't directing, I was simply speaking out loud.

I posted the info because about 8 moons ago I was saying the exact same stuff. I had my hand slapped (by multiple people) and it woke me up. I felt like doing the same might help. Finding the right person is one thing, blaming the fact you are a poly male is something entirely different.

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*bows* No problem. I try to be there for my people.

If he gets out of hand again, I`ll lend ya my strap.
...4 weeks my love, I will make sure I remember this one
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Old 12-09-2010, 05:00 PM
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...4 weeks my love, I will make sure I remember this one
I knew you`d be all excited for your strap .


To the OP : Everyone gets their knickers in a knot, over various things. Your questions were valid ones, that many males feel. Being a valid question, does not mean that its a correct train of thought. Ariakas was just a good example of this. Just because he cheekily typed; 'SourGirlSubmissive' doesn`t make it true. People who have 'been there done that' are probably going to be more blunt, instead of hand-holding and coddling negative thinking. That`s a good thing.

The old saying 'Life is what you make of it' tends to be very true, in these kind of situations.

I think Neon Khaos hit on something. You were probably more 'musing' outloud/in type,...It would of belonged in the blog section then.


Lesson learned, no harm no foul... if you choose to see the bright side.

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Old 12-10-2010, 05:09 AM
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OOOOHHHHHH, Got it... "SourGirl" was "SourGirlSubmissive" who once was "Superjast."

Welcome as your new persona SourGirl.
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Old 12-10-2010, 09:33 AM
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Jeez. That was confusing. She went from Super to Sour and didnt tell anyone?
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http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4425


Anything more then that defeats the purpose.
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Old 12-10-2010, 04:30 PM
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Anything more then that defeats the purpose.
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Old 12-10-2010, 04:58 PM
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for the record sourgirlsubmissive is me playing with sourgirl. You can change the name in quotations by changing everything after the equal then

quote=ariakasiscanadian

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She went from superjast to sourgirl
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for the record sourgirlsubmissive is me playing with sourgirl. You can change the name in quotations by changing everything after the equal then

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She went from superjast to sourgirl
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