Originally Posted by whatamIdoing
he says i should go and do it but that he is not happy and he won't be happy and he's very sure I am going to leave him for J.
Thats the type of thing that comes from time. Go this time, follow SG's advice and keep him in contact. Don't let NRE completely envelop you and forget about the hubby. This is one of those times where you need to build that trust from scrtach. Go, have fun, come home