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Old 11-30-2010, 06:21 AM
FitChick FitChick is offline
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Question Navigating Holiday periods

My bf and I are in a LDR and he also has 4 children with 2 different women,whereas I have none. I understand that Christmas is primarily for the children but he is spending the holidays(Christmas and NYE) with his ex wife,ex girlfriend and their children and there is no room for me.

I've never really been a 'Christmas' person anyway but this scenario is making me feel worse,given the fresh nature of the baby and ex girlfriend. I understand that the children come first and he needs to remain amicable with the exes,that's a given, but I'm finding it hard to separate out his relationship with the new baby and his ex,given that several of the significant holiday days are ones he will be spending with them..

I guess I'm feeling left out..

Any suggestions/ideas?
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