Need Some Advice in California

[nycindie]

Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG

Insecurity is not always the motivation behind a partner's resistance to poly.

I agree. My post was in response to this, which is what stood out for me:

Originally Posted by Onysablet

We have been together for five years. i have always been honest with him about my wants but he has always expressed a lot of insecurity . . . i am bending over backwards to make him feel secure

[MonoVCPHG]

Originally Posted by nycindie

I agree. My post was in response to:

I guess my point was that the perception of insecurity may be interpreted wrong. That hesitency may be coming from somehwere else.