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Old 11-22-2010, 09:04 PM
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Default Polyamorous just in words or actions too

I'm struggling.

Maca and GG talked and agreed that we could all go out to some holiday get togethers . They agreed that it was ok to acknowledge verbally that Maca is my husband, that GG is my boyfriend.

BUT-

Maca can't handle any sign of physical affection (hand holding, kissing, hugging, running fingers through hair, head on shoulder, kiss on cheek or top of head, etc) between GG and I....

SO it's ok to SAY he's my boyfriend publicly, but I'm supposed to act like he's not even my best friend....????

Yeah-that doesn't work for me.
I don't even know how to explain where I'm at. I just flat don't find it ok. I'd rather just not go anywhere with both of them together.

In point of fact, that's exactly where I'm at right now, I don't even want to be at home with BOTH of them right now. Becuase I find the whole of it so fucking taxing.

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