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Old 11-12-2010, 01:19 AM
quarterlifecrisis quarterlifecrisis is offline
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Default Another Newbie :)

28 year old female, somewhere in middle America.. Married.. Currently in a closed marriage.. We were open for about a year. I thought we had done all the right "research" and hubby and I had adequately communicated our needs with each other to be open, negotiated our "terms" together... But it seems we did it incorrectly and it ended up causing him a lot of pain... His pain turned into me feeling guilty, even though I didn't really feel guilty.. (Does that even make sense?)

We're trying to restructure our relationship together, but I am also figuring out how I feel personally... I'm feeling more and more like I am poly, and trying to figure out how that fits in with our marriage. I would love to hear from others out there who have been in similar situations!
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Old 11-12-2010, 05:51 AM
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